My absence - here's why

[Elisabeth]

I'm sorry I haven't been around this month but to comment on a layout or two. My father has been ill and in the hospital; even so his death was not expected at this time, so when that happened last Friday it rather devastated us. My mother passed away last year and so there is much to be done, for he had not moved and we had not distributed any of her things except to give her clothing to charity. Their house is more or less exactly as if they were still there. But they are together again if you believe in that sort of thing; they never wanted to be apart.

I made a quick trip out of town to see my niece get married; my daughter was the flower girl and he knew we were going and was looking forward to seeing photos when I got home. It hurts that I cannot show him my photos; he died while we were gone. I will be scrapping some and uploading them to the gallery as I have a chance. It was a day full of conflicting emotions but was a beautiful wedding, and my daughter, having not been told the news until we got home, had a wonderful time being a flower girl.

I will be around a bit, but will be scarce in the gallery and forums for a few weeks, and do apologise for that. I miss my daily interaction with everyone here. I will finish the sparkle kit before too long and post a new challenge as soon as I can. Thanks so much to you all for being my extended family. I'm getting through this and will be fine; it will just take a little time.

Love,
Elisabeth

[ScrapMel]

Oh Z, I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am glad he is with your mother, but I know this is just devastating for you.

[PacificTonz]

I am so sorry to hear your sad news. You are missed around here, my thoughts are with you and your family.

[sempson]

Elizabeth you don't have to apologise for anything. My heart is breaking for you right now. I do believe that your Mom and Dad are together and happy. I am so very very sorry for your loss. ((((BIG HUGS))) and take all the time you need. I will keep your family in my prayers.

[Beachcomber]

Elisabeth, I am sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. ((hugs))

[mariquita]

I'm so sorry for your loss...this must be so hard...I'sending you hugs and kisses...with love, Mariquita

I'm sorry I haven't been around this month but to comment on a layout or two. My father has been ill and in the hospital; even so his death was not expected at this time, so when that happened last Friday it rather devastated us. My mother passed away last year and so there is much to be done, for he had not moved and we had not distributed any of her things except to give her clothing to charity. Their house is more or less exactly as if they were still there. But they are together again if you believe in that sort of thing; they never wanted to be apart.

I made a quick trip out of town to see my niece get married; my daughter was the flower girl and he knew we were going and was looking forward to seeing photos when I got home. It hurts that I cannot show him my photos; he died while we were gone. I will be scrapping some and uploading them to the gallery as I have a chance. It was a day full of conflicting emotions but was a beautiful wedding, and my daughter, having not been told the news until we got home, had a wonderful time being a flower girl.

I will be around a bit, but will be scarce in the gallery and forums for a few weeks, and do apologise for that. I miss my daily interaction with everyone here. I will finish the sparkle kit before too long and post a new challenge as soon as I can. Thanks so much to you all for being my extended family. I'm getting through this and will be fine; it will just take a little time.

Love,
Elisabeth

[MarsOlson]

Elizabeth so sorry for your sad loss. It is always hard to lose a parent and losing both yours in such a short time is extra hard. I'm glad you have some small comfort in knowing they are together again. It is understandable you will have important priorities to deal with and look forward to when you can be back full time but take as much time as you need with your family matters.

[Meryl]

Elisabeth, you are so in my thoughts. Having blost my own very dear Dad just a month ago I feel your pain and mourn with you. Give yourself time, be patient with yourself - it is such a difficult time.

[webfrau]

{BIG HUGS}
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. There's no need for apologies, this has been such a difficult and emotional year or so for you. Take care of yourself and you family first and foremost and know that we will be thinking of you.

[Tara]

Thanks for letting us know Z, so we can all give you virtual hugs! (Tara jumps in on the giant bear hug) Don't worry about us...you know we'll miss you but no one will begrudge you all the time away you need. Hang in there.

[shazzt]

Oh Elizabeth - I am so sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family. I think your priorities are exactly where they should be at the moment. Look after yourself.

[honeymoon]

Elizabeth, I feel for you and your family at this time and I'm so sorry for your loss. Big Hugs.

[Vallie]

Big hugs for you Miss Elizabeth!! :hug: :hug:

[sammdc]

Elizabeth I am so sorry to hear of your loss but it is really nice to think of your parents being together again. I take comfort from the Willie Nelson Song Blue eyes crying in the rain, they walking hand in hand again in a land that knows no parting....

[Jill W]

Elizabeth I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad - I hope knowing he and your mom are together again eases some of the heartache.
Will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers ---
Sending you a great big ((HUG)).

[prodigal1978]

I am so sorry for your loss Elisabeth. There are probably not many words we can say to help matters right now, but my prayers are with you. My husband lost his father March of last year and it was unexpected as well. Family comes first and we'll be here when you get back. Lots of hugs and love to you:love1:

[LisasMom]

Oh Z, how heartbreaking! But know that not only are your folks together, they are without pain and worries! You be good to yourself and your family; cry a little and remember a lot. Take your time, we'll keep the light on for you!

[periwinkle]

I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[mrichar383]

How terrible, Z! I pray that God will give you comfort during this difficult time.

[Sharon1313]

Elisabeth, sending hugs and prayers for your comfort and strength at this tough time.

[dazzedd]

I am so sorry for your loss and I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. {{HUGZ}}

[jpysgrl]

I'm so sorry for your loss.

[gail0423]

(((((((((Z))))))))))) I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know there are few words that are truly comforting at this time, other than know that our thoughts are with you and your family, and yes, your parents are together again. God bless you and give you strength through this difficult time. :hug:

[flrebareba]

I am so very sorry. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. BIG {{{ HUG }}}

[janetklm]

I'm so sorry to hear this news.
You and your family will be in my prayers.
Take care!!!

[joannknnrd]

Oh Elizabeth! I'm so sorry for your loss! Your family has gone thru so much, my prayers are w/you all!

[Linda Rechtin]

Oh Elizabeth! I am SO sorry for your loss and sending you a great big cyber hug... ((((((((((Hugs)))))))))))) I can not imagine what you are going through but agree with you that your parents are together again and am glad that you can take comfort in that knowledge. How wonderful that you were so close. You and the rest of your family will be in my prayers.

[Maggie I.]

The pain will eventually subside, but the memories will live on forever.
Take care of yourself during this time and know that you are in our hearts.

[Janet]

Elizabeth, I'm SO sorry to hear of your loss!! You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))

[ChristineG]

Z, I also want to offer my hugs and condolences. Don't worry a bit about us, but I am glad you let us know so we can mourn with you. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. ((((((Big Hugs for you))))))

[kim]

Big Hugs, Z! I am so sorry for your loss. ((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))

[mommabyrd2003]

Z -

Prayers for you and your family. Praises that your father is once again joined with his beloved.

[~sarah~]

I am so sorry to hear of your sad news Z we are thinking of you ((hugg))

[sandilyn]

So sorry for your loss, Elisabeth- My thoughts and prayers are with you too.

[Anitza]

Z...

Don't apologize for taking care of you and yours in this extremely difficult time. I am amazed that you have the energy to do anything online right now. No need to feel like you are making excuses, take all the time that you need but know that we are here for you.

[jensturn]

My heart goes out to you...

I was in tears reading your post. It was three years ago today that my grandma died... so my emotions are kind of raw today.

Take all the time you need. We will be here when you are up to coming back more often.

Sending you lots of hugs and positive energy. :hug:

Jenna

[jenaRN]

Z-ditto to what has already been said-you don't owe us an apology and even though knowing that your parents are together again it's still a very hard thing for those left behind and my heart is breaking for you and your family. Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers thru this difficult time.

[the3chickens]

I just found out about this.. My deepest heartfelt condolences, Z :( :( :( I'm so very sorry for your loss and hope you are doing as well as can be expected at this time... My condolences to other members of your family too on losing a father/brother/sister/grandparent. I also lost my parents within a year of each other and fully understand the feeling of loss/grief that you must be going through.... {{{{Z}}}}

[sandygb]

Oh Z, my heart goes out to you. I knew your dad was ill, but this is the first I heard of his passing. I am so sorry and also sad that he will not get to see your photos. Sending big {{{hugs and prayers}}} your way. We will be here when you are able to spend time with us!!!

[Elisabeth]

Thanks so much to everyone for your kind thoughts and prayers. I won't pretend this is easy or I'm caught up, or even that I'm emotionally stable right now! But I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for your notes and words of wisdom. I can tell it's touched some of you from personal experience and I'm sorry for your own losses.

Okay, so I am trying to get things going again around here and hopefully I'll get back to viewing the spectacular gallery again, and so forth! My first BOGO challenge is up for May, and the kit for that goes in the store May 4. Also watch out for Ann Maree's new Out of Bounds challenge, if you are inclined to those, and if not, you should check it out; they are so addicting!

Hugs to all, and thanks again, so much, for your thoughts and support while I was all but gone from this wonderful place that means so much to all of us!

Elizabeth